3 Simple Rules for Leading a Great Life: Lessons My Father Taught Me

In my remarks at my dad’s memorial, I shared the 3 lessons he taught me that impacted me and were the reason for his amazing life. Here they are for you with time stamps.

May the wisdom from his 83 years on this planet help guide you.

Dr. Larry Gay as a young man in his letterman jacket and later in life in a suit, with the words "Live a Great Life!"

Dr. Larry Gay

Nov 21, 1940 - Jan 30, 2024

The 3 Rules, from Dr. Larry Gay

  • 01:09 — Rule 1: No one can hurt you except for you (listen for context)
  • 03:14 — Rule 2: Get familiar with the things that you fear
  • 04:42 — Rule 3: Treat everyone well, especially the support

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